Abused sexually

When a perpetrator intentionally harms a minor physically, psychologically, sexually, or by acts of neglect, the crime is known as child abuse. A perpetrator can have any relationship to a victim, and that includes the role of an intimate partner. Regardless of how the law defines incest, unwanted sexual contact from a family member can have a lasting effect on the survivor. In cases of drug-facilitated sexual assault, survivors often blame themselves. Remember—you are not to blame.

If you're worried about a child, even if you're unsure, contact our professional counsellors for help, advice and support. Call us or email help nspcc. Childline offers free, confidential advice and support whatever your worry, whenever you need help. If you're worried about sexual abuse, we're here to support you.

This page focuses specifically on child sexual abuse and the warning signs that this crime may be occurring. Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse that includes sexual activity with a minor. A child cannot consent to any form of sexual activity, period. When a perpetrator engages with a child this way, they are committing a crime that can have lasting effects on the victim for years.

Sexual abuse is sexual behavior or a sexual act forced upon a woman, man or child without their consent. Sexual abuse includes abuse of a woman, man or child by a man, woman or child. Sexual abuse is an act of violence which the attacker uses against someone they perceive as weaker than them. It does not come from an uncontrollable sex drive, but is a crime committed deliberately with the goal of controlling and humiliating the victim.